Men over 40! How many kids do you have? Do you wish you had more kids or less kids? Do you wish you had started a family younger— or waited a bit longer? Interested in responses for a piece I’m working on.
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Replying to @RealCandaceO
About to be 40 I have two kids and wish I had two more. Our mindset when we decided not to have anymore children was not where it is now. As wisdom tries to sneak into my life, I’ve realized that the joy and love from having kids outweighs pretty much everything else in life.

Nov 26, 2021 · 7:03 PM UTC

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Couldn’t agree more got lucky 🍀 with 4 in 5.5 years!!
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I feel the same! My boys are 16 and 17, and I had the same mindset. Honestly considering adopting. I’m 41.
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I had 2 daughters and also wish I had went for the 4 I wanted
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Couldn't agree more. Im 31, i have 3, would love to have 2 or 3 more.
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Don’t you worry about their future?
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Adopted my youngest daughter (last of 6) when I was 45. One of the greatest blessings of my life.
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My dad didn’t start having kids (me and my brother) till his 40’s. Is it too late for y’all to have two more?
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